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Before we get into this week’s good, bad, and ugly, I want to take a moment to talk about queerness as a politic that guides the direction of this newsletter.
I am sometimes asked why a gay sports newsletter also writes about things like how combat sports helped Trump win the White House, or why so few women’s athletes have come out in support of Palestine. Why am I writing anti-capitalist sports content or calling out problematic league sponsorships? Why am I writing about racist media coverage or why the Olympics probably shouldn’t exist? Why isn’t this newsletter only about gay athletes and queer fans?
To those people I say, clearly your queerness and my queerness are not the same. To me, queerness is a politic that encompasses so much more than just who someone dates or goes to bed with. Queerness is about dismantling oppressive structures and systems, in whatever form they exist. Queerness is a way of viewing the world that imagines a future in which everyone is free. Queerness is about power dynamics, about afflicting the comfortable and centering marginalized voices.
There is no queer-lens without a larger anti-oppression lens. This isn’t about homonormativity or rainbow capitalism, in which queer people conform their lives to the dominant structures in every way except for who they marry. My queerness is anti-capitalist, anti-colonial, anti-Zionist, anti-racist, pro-trans, feminist, and inclusive.
This newsletter will always be about queerness through that larger worldview, and which understands that none of us is free until all of us is free. My journalism and my analysis are always about taking a critical lens to the systems of oppression that harm us all.
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And with that, here’s the good, the bad, and the ugly from this week in queer women’s sports. At the end of the newsletter, I’m asking OOYL readers to vote on whether something is good, bad, or ugly, because I just can’t decide how I feel about it.
the good
One of my favorite WNBA creators, Nicolette Mason, had a “Bark Mitzvah” for Frankie, her 13-year-old pug. I’m obsessed with this idea, the commitment to the party by both the hosts and the guests is a reason why I believe queers are unmatched. The best part of this story, however, is when Natisha Hiedeman weighed in to wish Frankie a happy Bark Mitzvah.
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Why is T’s hair red instead of pink? Well, if you guessed “to represent period blood,” you’d be correct! It’s part of this StudBudz partnership with Kotex, the period products brand. And I kind of love it, ngl. In addition to taking the shame out of talking about periods, there’s something incredibly radical about masculine women discussing mestruation. This is the sort of vaginal care product that athletes should be promoting, rather than things like the New York Liberty’s Vagisil partnership.
The PWHL will now have fan jerseys available to purchase for every player across the league. Home jerseys for all signed, rostered players on the inaugural six teams are now available through the league’s official online shop, with jerseys for PWHL Seattle and Vancouver to follow this fall after their uniform unveilings. The WNBA should take note.
CJ Jackson showed up like this to the Toronto International Film Festival for the premiere of their short film, Pink Light, in which they star as a pre-transition trans man:
You’re welcome.
Wake Up Barstool opened to terrible viewership on FS1, which is great. However, its success will depend on whether it can break through online. My hope is that it will go the way of ESPN’s “Barstool Van Talk,” which was canceled after one episode.
I’ve been enjoying the memes of these college football players looking like they’re super in love with each other after a big win. Sportsmanship! (Also, Chase Leon, one of the men in the photo, has taken the whole thing in stride and even been (slightly) critical of Antonio Brown’s use of a homophobic slur in response to the picture).
Meanwhile, NaLyssa Smith celebrated her birthday with a gift from her girlfriend, DiJonai Carrington:
You love to see it.
And speaking of NaiLyssa, the Las Vegas Aces players posted a video in which the players all dressed up as “their type.” Some fans were surprised to see Kiah Stokes dress as a bad bitch (though she has spent years engaging in “stud talk” on X with Chelsea Gray, Kierstan Bell, and Syd Colson so I always assumed), but pretty much everyone was surprised to see Jackie Young dressed as one. The responses to JYo’s (potential? she posted this as an explanation) coming out have been great. Two of my favorites were the “gay off” between UConn and Notre Dame:
And Saniya Rivers being apparently shocked that the public didn’t know that Jackie was (maybe?) queer:
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It does put this post from KB during NBA All-Star in a new light…
the bad
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